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Monday, November 30, 2015

First time mommy..

Assalamualaikum...

Fuuhhh~
Da lama rasanya x update new entry..since ada habib ada perubahan sikit kt my schedule..


As a first time mommy...mmg bnyk perkara yg i belajar...my world changed 360°...hahaha...but it just a new beginning for me...


I do still remember.. Right after being a mom, benda pertama yg i takutkan ialah xda masa utk diri sendiri..sbb from what i heard n read b4,bnyk new mommy yg ckp dorg xda masa..so do i my self..


first month mmg rasa x cukup tido,penat plus struggling for fully bf habib,nk jaga luka cser lg..such a dramatic month.. But, as a time fly slowly i learn to manage my self n habib...

When it turn to the next month, there are a lot of new things that i learn & i started to enjoy a motherhood life.. I enjoyed every single minute that i spend with my little prince.. Being a parent is such a wonderful journey in our life...



After 3 month, alhamdulillah i manage i get the old me.. Get enough sleep,shower and eat.. Now,it is already 5 month and i learn a lot of things... Here is a few tips i would like to share from my own experience...


This is based on my own experience duk umah sendiri la :
1. Just prepare stroller dlm rumah in case habib meragam,letak dlm tu tolak la dia dlm rumah. Bkn manjakan yea dear,instead of i nak dukung & memenatkan better letak je dlm stroller tu.
2. I bgn seblm habib bgn. Trus mandi + masukkan baju dlm mesin basuh. Buat air panas2 letakkan atas meja sbb this time usually habib da bgn. I masukkan dia dlm stroller makan smbil bertemankan dia.
3. Susukan habib seblm mandikan, sbb lps mandi automatic dia mengantuk.
4. Time habib tido i akan cepat2 buat keja rumah.
5. Usually habib bgn tghari then tido blik pkul 2/3-5 ptg, at this time i pun join dia tido gak sbb xde apa nk buat.


Time nk keluar jalan2:
1. Mandikan & siapkan habib dulu, then susukan @ tidokan if dia nmpk mengantuk.
2. If habib x tido,i mintak tolong hubby i jagakan kejap sementara i bersiap (if dia ada)
3. In case hubby xda, i bersiap slow2 (mndi dlu,then smbil2 tgkkan habib sempat la i pkai foundation, pakai bedak last skali bru pkai bju n tudung.
4. Sapa ckp ada baby xley pakai shawl berlilit2?i sempat je..(fyi hubby i bekerja jauh so mmg habib i handle by my own)
5. I prepared brg2 habib slalunya mlm sblm nk keluar, senang just grab bag je.


Bila kt luar plak :
1. Habib mmg 100% kt dlm stroller dia,i x amalkan dukung mendukung ni.
2. Habib fully bf,so i mmg bwk pashmina utk cover time menyusukan dia. Tp selalunya i susukan dia smpai kenyang time dlm kereta.
3. Bawak selimut sbb slalunya dia ngantuk dia gentel selimut smpai tertido plus kdg2 sejuk kesian kt dia.
4. I tukar pampers habib setiap 2-3 jam @ bila i nmpk dia mcm da x selesa i tukar ja w/pun x smpai 2jam.
5. Ni mmg habit i akan spare 2 pasang bju habib,lampin + sabun dia in case dia berak. Yg ni advice from my mom.
6. Always put buckle sbb skrg ni bnyk sgt kes,x salah if beringat.



Alhamdulillah, now habib pun da 5 bln. Sometimes mcm x percaya my little prince ni da bsr. Skrg dia da msuk stage menggigit,mybe gatal gusi. I da start bg dia mkn buah actually. Even nurse advice jgn mkn sblm umur 6 bln,but for me it just a juice. I bkn bg dia mkn nasi @ ayam goreng.




Alhamdulillah i masih berkesempatan utk live my life..enjoy every single minute with him..there is a lot of things yg i still perlu belajar & i hope he will be anak yg soleh for me & my hubby..




With love,
AdilahSafiee


Tuesday, November 10, 2015

Setelah bergelar ibu

Assalamualaikum...


Fuuhhhh~
Tiup2 sikit.. Da berabuk blog ni menunjukkan da berkurun aku x update any entry.. Hahahaha.. Apakan daya, setelah hampir 5 bln bergelar ibu bnyak perubahan jadual harian aku.. Ye la,being a mothwe isn't that easier as dlm tv weh.. Totally different kot..

But, since si habib tido ada la peluang nk update entry for today.. Alhamdulillah this month habib akan menginjak usia 5 bulan.. Syukur pada Allah atas kurniaan kesihatan sepanjang tempoh ni.. Ohhh,haaaa.. Lagi 1,alhamdulillah luka czer pun da sembuh.. Maybe da 80% sembuhnya.. Da bercantum cantik but still ada marks.. But i don't mind.. Hahahahaha..


Since bergelar ibu ni,mmg la rutin harian aku berubah 360°.. Hahaha... Amik kau.. But alhamdulillah i'm slowly get blended with all those things yg sblm ni mmg x pernah berlaku.. Alhamdulillah, thanks to lovely hubby & family yg bnyk bg support & never let me get through this alone.. As my mom advice, bila anak tido je thats it!!itulah saat & ketikanya utk kita mak2 ni settle semua keja..basuh bju right after wake up n showered.. Anak tido blh sidai baju tu.. Masak cpt2.. Simple2 je xyah la acah2 menu mcm kt hotel 5 bintang.. If anak2 spesis tido kejap2 mcm my habib,i just cooked nasi putih,sayur,ayam goreng/masak kicap/sambal ayam,nasi goreng,telur dadar @ anything yg simple2.. Bkn nk ajar uols semua malas,but at this age baby need more attention.. Drpa cik kak semua sibuk nk masak mcm masterchef tu,lebih baik make it simple.. Law cik abg da blik keja mlm tu blh la masak special sikit sbb ada org blh tlg tgkkan si kecik tu..


Sepanjang umur aku hidup,that was my first time aku vacuum lantai smbil dukung habib.. Ya rabbi, rasa mcm bersukan kt rumah.. Ye la,bunyi vacuum kn kuat so habib terbangun n xnk duduk bwh.. But alhamdulillah i still manage to make it.. Pesan org tua2, bila ada baby kt rumah rajin2kan lah diri tu mop lantai.. Sbb baby ni kulit dia sensitif.. Elakkan drpd letak baby trus atas lantai,biarlah beralas.. Takut plak if ada semut ke or serangga yg kecik2 merayap..


Since jadi ibu ni,keperluan diri da jatuh no 2.. Bkn xnk jaga diri,maksudnya apa2 yg kita buat akan didahului oleh baby.. Nk mkn apa2 fikir dulu apa kesannya pd baby sbb i'm fully bf habib.. Hukhukhuk.. Slalu shopping pun brg habib.. Hahahaha.. Baby ni cpt membesar, so don't wonder why kna tukar bju dia setiap bln.. X kan la uols nk sarung jgak bju yg sendat kt baby kn?



Bila da jd ibu ni, waktu tido mmg x cukup.. Time dia tido tu je la waktu yg kita ada.. Nk kemas umah,bsuh bju,sidai bju,memasak etc. For mommies yg buat bisnes plak terkejar2 nk reply wasap,pos brg etc.. Fuhh~ kdg2 x sedar yg diri tu x mndi smpai ke ptg..hahaahaha



Dalam erti kata lain,bila da jd ibu ni bru taw mcmana ibu kita besarkan kita dulu.. Huuuu~ apa2 pun, setiap org Allah uji dgn cara yg berbeza.. Mungkin ada yg baby dia baik je x nangis pun, ada yg senang diurus, ada yg duk dgn family & mcm2 lg.. So, jgnlah cepat melatah & judge ibu2 yg lain.. Sentiasa bersyukur dgn apa yg Allah beri pd kita..


Okey la, tu je yg nk d bebelkan.. See u later...



With love,
AdilahSafiee